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Marcus Washington I

Marcus Levi Washington I, known within his family as Pop, was a Black American construction worker and the patriarch of the Washington family. He spent his entire life in West Baltimore. He and his wife, Denise Washington, shared the family home with their son, daughter-in-law, and grandson. After Diana’s death and Marcus II’s withdrawal from active parenting, Marcus and Denise became their grandson’s primary caregivers within the household.

Early Life and Family

Marcus was born in West Baltimore in 1944 and remained there throughout his life. He and Denise had one son, Marcus Levi Washington II, in September 1966 and married in approximately 1967.

Marcus II never moved out of Marcus and Denise’s home. After he and Diana Rochelle Washington married, Diana joined him there. Their son, Marcus Washington III, was born into the multigenerational household, so Pop was part of his grandson’s daily life from birth.

Career

Marcus worked in construction.

Physical Characteristics

Marcus was tall and lean, with a long-limbed, narrow frame that became more angular with age. He had medium-dark-brown skin, brown eyes, and closely cropped salt-and-pepper hair. Arthritis enlarged and stiffened the joints in his long-fingered hands and increasingly affected his knees and mobility.

Personality and Communication

Marcus was quiet and stoic. His voice was a deep, hoarse bass that usually emerged as a low, gravelly grunt rather than extended speech. Different grunts conveyed greeting or acknowledgment, and he often used nods to communicate approval. When he spoke an actual word or sentence, his delivery remained low, rough, and economical.

At the December 2014 scout game, he greeted Keisha Clark with a grunt and generally responded through nods rather than extended conversation.

At basketball games, Denise shouted from the stands while Marcus watched and nodded. He attended consistently, including after arthritis made the bleachers harder to navigate.

Health and Daily Life

Marcus was autistic but never received a formal diagnosis. He relied heavily on routine and environmental predictability. His chair, coffee, newspaper, usual bleacher position beside Denise, and pressed navy button-down for church, funerals, and formal family events were stable parts of his daily and public life.

The newspaper functioned as both a sensory anchor and a social boundary. Holding it up allowed Marcus to remain present without inviting conversation; lowering or setting it aside signaled focused attention. During a March 2015 home visit with University of Maryland coaches, Marcus read the newspaper from his chair and put it aside when the conversation turned to his son’s effort to support Marcus III.

Marcus also had arthritis that affected his hands, knees, and other joints and slowed his movement. Denise sometimes steadied him by the elbow on stairs and bleachers.

Family and Core Relationships

Denise Washington

Main article: Marcus Washington I and Denise Washington

Marcus and Denise had been married for decades by 2014. Her warmth and volume contrasted with his quietness. They attended their grandson’s games together and shared the work of holding their household together after Diana’s death.

Marcus Washington II

Main article: Marcus Washington I and Marcus Washington II

Marcus remained present while his son grieved Diana and developed a serious dependence on alcohol. He did not shame Marcus II or compare their responses to loss, although Marcus II frequently compared himself unfavorably to his father.

Marcus Washington III

Main article: Marcus Washington I and Marcus Washington III

Marcus had lived with his grandson since Marcus III’s birth. When Marcus II became unable to parent consistently, Pop and Denise assumed the active caregiving role without a change in residence. Pop attended Marcus III’s basketball games and provided a quiet, reliable counterpoint to Denise’s more vocal support.

Diana Rochelle Washington

Main article: Marcus Washington I and Diana Washington

Diana was Marcus’s daughter-in-law and a member of the shared household. Her death from triple-negative breast cancer in 2010 changed the family’s caregiving structure and left every member of the household grieving.

Across his adult life, Marcus outlived Denise’s mother, his own father, his brother, and Diana. He responded to those losses by maintaining his routines and remaining physically present for his family.

December 2014 Scout Game

Main article: UMD Scout Game (December 2014) - Event

Marcus and Denise attended the game at which a University of Maryland scout evaluated Marcus III. Marcus climbed the bleachers despite his arthritis, greeted Keisha Clark with a grunt when she sat between him and Denise, and stood when his grandson scored.

Memorable Quotes

“You play basketball?” (Source: UMD Scout Game (December 2014) - Event; Marcus speaking to Keisha in the bleachers.)